She's a jugementel person but why?

I understand what you are saying. I am the step mom. My step son was 8 years old when I came into his life. He wanted nothing to do with me, because I wasn't his mother. It took him a very long time to accept me. Now he is 13, and he loves me. So just give it time. You are probly as rotten to your step mom as he was to me. The hate feelings you are having will p.